I am so pathetically, amazingly, horrendously angry and I want to break things. And then I am so sad that I want to do nothing but curl up in a ball and cry.
I am so done with you. I am done with your fucking boyfriend. Go off and get married, but I will not be involved.
Dear?? What is wrong?????
A friend of mine, one of my best, that I’ve had for what’s running on six years now sort of threw away our friendship over a boy. She got mad at me because I said I didn’t like him, because I felt like he wasn’t everything she deserves out of life and she doesn’t seem happy a lot of the time, and then she’s freakishly dependent and clingy with him. She told me that nobody is perfect and that she hurts him as much as he hurts her, and I told her that still isn’t healthy and that I can’t sit back and have that bipolar energy in my life, and that I will not defend myself against her and her boyfriend to her.
We sort of ended our friendship. It sucks. But the Universe will bring her in the right direction. She will be okay, and happy, and I will be too, and maybe we’ll be in each other’s lives again, but that can’t be right now.
When I wrote that, I was fantastically angry, though. Thank you for the concern. ♥
You’re quit welcome my dear. Something very similar happened with one of my close friends a few months ago and your right. Eventually things turn themselves right-side out. We never made up but it was my decision to not have that interference in my busy life. What ever you choose to do in your situation will, knowing you, be the best choice. =) You’re smart like that.
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